The female of most species bears the major brunt of reproduction. The male's part is generally over after the sexual act. But nature has been extremely severe against the females. It is the female that bears the pregnancy, suffers terrible pain while delivering the baby and afterwards nurtures the baby, tasks from which the males of most specie are exempt. Love for the baby develops automatically as a natural phenomenon. The male may not even know its/his fatherhood.
As a result of this basic difference in the assignment of functions by nature, the entire female outlook has become cantered on love, affection and relationships. Positive loving relationship is vital for women. They actually feel repelled by the mechanical, contractual and business relationship. In the case of the human beings a pregnant woman feels the baby growing in her womb, feeling its progress every second and emotionally participating in its growth. Emotional attachment is automatic. Her thoughts become hormonal communications to the baby and her body and mind get wholly tuned to the baby in the womb. Love becomes the foundation of her conceptualisations. Love and affection or their absence rules her understanding or misunderstanding. An ideal male for her is one that gives her love and security. In fact love and security become the two sides of one coin. As a result her main erogenous organ is her mind. A 'mister world' that loves himself normally repels her. A man who is proud of his sex provess may repel her.
A man's outlook is mainly based on his physical power and his success in propagation. Most male writers when they write about a woman cannot but give a description of her sexual attraction. On the other hand female writers dwell mainly on emotional equations in relationships. Male writers dwell more on the man's daring, strength, courage, number of women bagged etc.
For many men a woman is an object of physical enjoyment and that object must always be his admirer. After the sex act if she vanishes from his presence, it is a bonus to some men. That is why we find so many male jokes disparaging the marriage relationship as a sort of imprisonment. Very few females joke about their married relationship. They cannot take their marriage lightly as a joking subject.
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