Re: ***keep_mailing*** Drop all negative references of your past

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On Mon, Sep 24, 2012 at 10:49 AM, Junaid Tahir <mjunaidtahir@gmail.com> wrote:

One of the most severely limiting beliefs that many of us have is that the person we were yesterday is the person we have to be today.

If you can see how ridiculous and self-defeating this belief is, you can make an instant shift toward success. What prevents us from tapping into this potential is our own mental ties to the past.

Letting go of your past is like taking a set of heavy chains from around your neck

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***keep_mailing*** Hadith: Woman Travel

Hadith: Woman Travel

Sahih Al Bukhari - Book of Shortening The Prayers (At-Taqseer)

Volumn 002, Book 020, Hadith Number 194. 
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Narated By Abu Huraira RA : The Prophet (p.b.u.h) said, "It is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to travel for one day and night except with a Mahram."

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***keep_mailing*** Hadith: These Earnings Are Forbidden (Haraam)

Sahih Al Bukhari - Book of Medicine

Volumn 007, Book 071, Hadith Number 656. 
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Narated By Abu Mas'ud RA: The Prophet PBUH forbade the utilization of the price of a dog, the earnings of prostitute and the earnings of a foreteller

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***keep_mailing*** Hadith: Allah SWT hates 3 things

Sahih Al Bukhari - Book of Obligatory Charity Tax (Zakat)

Volumn 002, Book 024, Hadith Number 555. 
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Narated By Ash-sha'bi RA: The clerk of Al-Mughira bin Shu'ba RA narrated, "Muawiya RA  wrote to Al-Mughira bin Shu'ba: Write to me something which you have heard from the Prophet (p.b.u.h) ." So Al-Mughira wrote: I heard the Prophet PBUH  saying, "Allah has hated for you three things: 

1. Vain talks, (useless talk) that you talk too much or about others. 
2. Wasting of wealth. (by extravagance) 
3. And asking too many questions (in disputed religious matters) or asking others for something (except in great need). (See Hadith No. 591, Vol. Ill) 

 

May Allah guide me and all of us

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***keep_mailing*** Humor: Goodbye Mom :)

A young man shopping in a supermarket noticed a little old lady following him around. 
If he stopped, she stopped. 
Furthermore she kept staring at him. 

She finally overtook him at the checkout, and she turned to him and said, "I hope I haven't made you feel ill at ease; it's just that you look so much like my late son." 

He answered, "That's okay." 

"I know it's silly, but if you'd call out 'Good bye, Mom' as I leave the store, it would make me feel so happy." 

She then went through the checkout, and as she was on her way out of the store, the man called out, "Goodbye, Mom." 

The little old lady waved and smiled back at him. 

Pleased that he had brought a little sunshine into someone's day, he went to pay for his groceries. 

"That comes to $121.85," said the clerk. 

"How come so much? I only bought 5 items." 

The clerk replied, "Yeah, but your Mother said you'd be paying for her things, too." 

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***keep_mailing*** Handling criticism

Rather than trying to avoid criticism, expert performers welcome it. They seek out coaches and advisors who can give them constructive, sometimes even painful feedback. They then use this feedback as a guide for steady improvement.

Here are some steps you can take to handle criticism effectively:

1. Acknowledge Your Error - Acknowledging a mistake is not the same as acknowledging that you are an inferior person/a failure. If you believe the criticism is accurate, take full responsibility. Don't blame something or someone else and don't make excuses. If appropriate, offer a diplomatic apology: "I'm sorry that my actions led to that result. It certainly was not my intention." Again, if appropriate, ask for suggestions on how you can improve your performance the next time.
    
2. Take Corrective Action - After you've heard the other person out completely, and listened to any suggestions for improvement, state/communicate your eagerness to improve in the future. If appropriate, describe any actions you will take at his time to counterbalance your previous error. 

3. Acknowledge the other person's motive - Thank the other person for the feedback and make sure to state how valuable you consider it. This demonstrates your ability to use criticism as a way to improve – an essential quality of a leader. In addition, let the other person know that you are open to receiving his or her feedback in the future. 

Even when you don't care for the style in which criticism is presented, be thankful that the other person is willing to give you feedback, and along with it, an opportunity to improve.

 

K.N.RAJAN

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***keep_mailing*** Everything You Do Matters

Everything You Do Matters
The Ripple Effect

In a world of six billion people, it's easy to believe that the only way to initiate profound transformation is to take extreme action. Each of us, however, carries within us the capacity to change the world in small ways for better or worse.Everything we do and think affects the people in our lives, and their reactions in turn affect others. As the effect of a seemingly insignificant word passes from person to person, its impact grows and can become a source of great joy, inspiration, anxiety, or pain. Your thoughts and actions are like stones dropped into still waters, causing ripples to spread and expand as they move outward. The impact you have on the world is greater than you could ever imagine, and the choices you make can have far-reaching consequences. You can use the ripple effect to make a positive difference and spread waves of kindness that will wash over the world. 

Should the opportunity arise, the recipient of a good deed will likely feel compelled to do a good deed for someone else. Someone feeling the effects of negative energy will be more likely to pass on that negative energy. One act of charity, one thoughtful deed, or even one positive thought can pass from individual to individual, snowballing until it becomes a group movement or the ray of hope that saves someone's life. Every transformation, just like every ripple, has a point of origin. You must believe in your ability to be that point of origin if you want to use the ripples you create to spread goodness. Consider the effect of your thoughts and actions, and try to act graciously as much as possible. 

A smile directed at a stranger, a compliment given to a friend, an attitude of laughter, or a thoughtful gesture can send ripples that spread among your loved ones and associates, out into your community, and finally throughout the world.You have the power to touch the lives of everyone you come into contact with and everyone those people come into contact with. The momentum of your influence will grow as your ripples moves onward and outward. One of those ripples could become a tidal wave of positivity

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***keep_mailing*** The English language. Did you know?

The English language. Did you know?

• Did you know the most commonly used letter in the alphabet is 'E.'
• Did you know the least used letter in the alphabet is 'Q.'
• Did you know skiing is the only word with double 'i.'
• Did you know dreamt is the only word that ends in 'mt.'
• Did you know the first letters of the months July through to November spell JASON.
• Did you know there are only 4 words in the English language which end in 'dous' (they are: hazardous, horrendous, stupendous and tremendous).
• Did you know the oldest word in the English language is 'town.'
• Did you know 'Bookkeeper' and 'bookkeeping' are the only 2 words in the English language with three consecutive double letters.
• Did you know the word 'Strengths' is the longest word in the English language with just one vowel.
• Did you know the dot on top of the letter 'i' is called a tittle.
• Did you know the past tense for the English word 'dare' is 'durst.'
• Did you know the word 'testify' derived from a time when men were required to swear on their testicles.
• Did you know The first English dictionary was written in 1755.
• Did you know the word old English word 'juke' meaning dancing lends its name to the Juke Box.
• Did you know 1 out of every 8 letters written is an 'e.'
• Did you know the longest one syllable word in the English language is 'screeched.'
• Did you know all pilots on international flights identify themselves in English regardless of their country of origin.
• Did you know the expression to 'knuckle down' originated from playing marbles (players used to put their knuckles to the ground for their best shots).
• Did you know the word 'almost' is the longest in the English language with all the letters in alphabetical order.
• Did you know the most commonly used word in English conversation is 'I.'

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***keep_mailing*** Hadith: Reward For Treating Daughters Generously

Sahih Al Bukhari - Book of Obligatory Charity Tax (Zakat)

Volumn 002, Book 024, Hadith Number 499. 
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Narated By 'Aisha RA: A lady along with her two daughters came to me asking (for some alms), but she found nothing with me except one date which I gave to her and she divided it between her two daughters, and did not eat anything herself, and then she got up and went away. Then the Prophet PBUH came in and I informed him about this story. He said, "Whoever is put to trial by these daughters and he treats them generously (with benevolence) then these daughters will act as a shield for him from Hell-Fire." (See Hadith No. 24, Vol. 8).

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***keep_mailing*** Hadith: Taking Bath on Friday

Sahih Al Bukhari - Book of Friday Prayer

Volumn 002, Book 013, Hadith Number 042. 
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Narated By Salim RA : My father said , "I heard the Prophet PBUH delivering the Khutba on the pulpit and he said, 'Whoever comes for the Jumua prayer should take a bath (before coming).'" 

may Allah guide us to follow the right path.

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