***keep_mailing*** Success advice: Avoid Instant Decisions

Don't Make Quick Decisions.
When things in your plan need to change, unless necessary, do not make quick decisions. Just as it took time to plan in the beginning, it will take time to change. You want to make sure you are making the right decisions when changes come up. Do your research just as you did in the beginning and then make educated choices.

 

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***keep_mailing*** Sugar Coated Person Or a Genuine Human Being

While reading an article on blog http://luvlibra.blogspot.com/ the below lines caught my attention:

"Remember the next time you decide to give someone a chance whether it be for work or for friendship, go for the real thing and not the sugar-coated one"

These lines triggered some thoughts in my mind on what points to consider in differentiating between the genuine personality and sugar-coated human. Below are my suggestions:

1. One or two observations are not enough to conclude. Take some time.
2. Instead of observing actions, check the habits. Sometimes actions may not portray the genuine inner personality; however habits can predict the character. Because habits trigger repetitive actions which transform into the overall personality. 
3. Sometimes sugar coating is not done because of specific evil benefits instead may be it is because of ethical causes. Don't think negative about such person; appreciate instead.
4. Look for ethical characteristics such as honesty, truthfulness, friendliness, down-to-earth.
5. Instead of using your eyes, use brain. Think logical and think carefully in concluding about someone.

Source: http://paradigmwisdom.blogspot.com/2012/03/sugar-coated-person-or-genuine-human.html

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***keep_mailing*** Success advice: Wants and Needs

Want Versus Need.
When you strive for success, do it because you want it, not because you need it. When you want something, it brings about intention, desire, and action. However, when you need something, it will lead to pain, stress, and frustration.

 

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***keep_mailing*** Circle of life

 

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Re: ***keep_mailing*** Intercourse while fasting

The lady has not mentioned wether it was during the day or night. If
it was during night it is allowed but if it was during day then she
has to act as per futwa.

Fayaz

On 7/28/12, Junaid Tahir <mjunaidtahir@gmail.com> wrote:
> *Question**:*
> Assalam alaikum ,about 9 years ago when i got married i didn't know alot
> ,so in Ramadan i slept with my husband about 3 to 4 times. i didn't know
> how bad it was to sleep together during Ramadan . please help me in telling
> me what should i do about it ? Thank you so much.
>
> *Fatwa*
>
> All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that
> there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad is His
> slave and Messenger.
>
>
> Whoever has sexual intercourse during the day of Ramadhaan while knowing
> that it is forbidden to do so (even if he does not know the consequences of
> sexual intercourse) then his fast is void and he is obliged to expiate for
> doing so. The expiation is to free a slave, and if this is not available,
> he is obliged to fast for two consecutive months, and if he is again unable
> to do so, he must feed 60 poor persons. For more benefit, please refer to
> Fataawa 84189 and 83914.
>
> If a person does not know that it is forbidden, like a new Muslim, or a
> person who grew up in a remote country, or in a society where ignorance is
> widespread, then his fast is void as well and he is obliged to make up for
> that day in which he had sexual intercourse. The view we adopt here in
> Islamweb is that he is not obliged to expiate due to his ignorance that
> this act is forbidden.
>
> For more benefit, please refer to Fataawa 86584 and 100372.
>
> Allaah Knows best.
> http://www.islamweb.net/emainpage/index.php?page=articles&id=146165
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***keep_mailing*** Hadith: woman marrying Christian or Jews ?

Sahih Al Bukhari - Book of Divorce

Volumn 007, Book 063, Hadith Number 209.
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Narated By Nafi'RA : Whenever Ibn 'Umar RA was asked about marrying a Christian lady or a Jewess, he would say: "Allah has made it unlawful for the believers to marry ladies who ascribe partners in worship to Allah, and I do not know of a greater thing, as regards to ascribing partners in worship, etc. to Allah, than that a lady should say that Jesus is her Lord although he is just one of Allah's slaves."

 

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***keep_mailing*** Intercourse while fasting

Question:

Assalam alaikum ,about 9 years ago when i got married i didn't know alot ,so in Ramadan i slept with my husband about 3 to 4 times. i didn't know how bad it was to sleep together during Ramadan . please help me in telling me what should i do about it ? Thank you so much.

 

Fatwa

 

All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger. 

 

 

Whoever has sexual intercourse during the day of Ramadhaan while knowing that it is forbidden to do so (even if he does not know the consequences of sexual intercourse) then his fast is void and he is obliged to expiate for doing so. The expiation is to free a slave, and if this is not available, he is obliged to fast for two consecutive months, and if he is again unable to do so, he must feed 60 poor persons. For more benefit, please refer to Fataawa 84189 and 83914.

 

If a person does not know that it is forbidden, like a new Muslim, or a person who grew up in a remote country, or in a society where ignorance is widespread, then his fast is void as well and he is obliged to make up for that day in which he had sexual intercourse. The view we adopt here in Islamweb is that he is not obliged to expiate due to his ignorance that this act is forbidden.

 

For more benefit, please refer to Fataawa 86584 and 100372.

 

Allaah Knows best.

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